Saturday, 4 March 2017

The Good News First...

A quick check in before we head off to Canterbury to take DD2 out for lunch. She's over this way for a few days for a friend's 30th birthday, but we're managing to get together a few times before she heads back on Monday.

So, the good news first...

Our buyer finally has his mortgage offer through so the move is back on. He's pushing for a quick move which is a bit of a cheek after he's the one who's kept us waiting. Since there's a teacher in our family and also in our seller's family we're holding out for Monday 3rd April at the beginning of the Easter break. After all, it's down to him that we couldn't move over the half term break so fair play that he should now work to our timetable. Also, he's out of the country next week so won't be available to sign the paperwork or exchange until the week beginning 13th March at the earliest. 

It's a big relief that all is going ahead. We actually went as far as putting the house back on the market and had a couple of offers we were considering, but that would have meant going back to the start of the selling process with the new buyers needing a mortgage so we hung on for our original buyer and thankfully it seems to have paid off. I won't count my chickens until we've moved in though!

And now the bad news. Unfortunately DS2's engagement was shortlived. It's uncertain exactly why she changed her mind and DS couldn't get a straight answer out of her, but it appears she returned home to the States and had second thoughts but couldn't bring herself to tell DS for weeks. He's absolutely heartbroken. As he says he was prepared to give up everything to move to the US and start a new life with her. The relationship is completely over so that's that. 

There is a bit of good news for him in that he's been offered a full time job as a court usher at the local magistrates court (subject to his references and health info checking out) but that's not much consolation at the moment. Also, his band are through to the next round of this year's Metal to the Masses competition following the first round gig that we attended in Canterbury on Tuesday. However, because he needs his tonsils removing due to repeated throat infections, the band may need to replace him as singer if his surgery clashes with the competition dates. Lots of ups and downs.

Now that DS2 isn't moving to the States it looks like DH and I will be using the sitting room of our new house as a bedroom for longer than anticipated. If the new job works out for him though I'm sure that, at nearly 24, he'll be wanting to get his own place pretty soon.

I think that's all for now. There's probably lots of little bits and pieces I could mention but I won't bore you with them.

Have a good weekend everybody. Love, Helen xx

6 comments:

  1. It is better that it ended now rather than after he had gone over to join her. here,s hoping that your move goes off easily and to your schedule.

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    1. You're right, Pam, much better for it to have happened now, but not easy to see him so upset. Thank you for your good wishes, fingers crossed our move now goes smoothly. Love Helen x

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  2. What a shame about your sons engagement. Thank goodness she didn't wait until he'd moved over there to tell him. Hopefully he can move on and his new job will be a bit of a distraction. Thank goodness things are moving ahead for your house move. Not long now!!

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    1. Yes, better for him to find out before he moved but still really hard to see him so upset. Thanks for the good wishes re our house move, I'm still holding my breath though in case anything else goes wrong. Love, Helen x

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  3. Fingers crossed that the house move goes forward without any further complications. I am sure your son is feeling very battered and bruised emotionally right now, poor thing. x

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    1. Thank you for the good wishes re the house move. DS2 isn't doing too badly at the moment, although the poor thing has also gone down with a rotten cold. He actually has the possibility of more than one full time job so that's distracting him. Love, Helen x

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